Signs of a Cheating Girlfriend

How do you know if your other half is being faithful?

I wanted to know if there were any universal things that I should be on the lookout for, so I asked a few friends that had either been divorced or had a long-term relationship end because of adultery. They offered the following signs of a cheating girlfriend to help determine if a relationship has staying power.

Signs of A Cheating Girlfriend: Warning Signs

She doesn't introduce her friends - Be wary of any woman who won't introduce you to her friends. This is especially true of ladies who have mostly male friends. Think about all of YOUR girl friends, how many did you become friends with without having some ulterior motive. If she's not introducing you as her man, or keeping you separate from large chunks of her life, you should question her on it.

Random phone calls -  also worry about random late night phone calls/texts. Barring an emergency why does anyone need to talk to you at 1 am? My friends who had suffered the betrayal of being cheated on all said that this was one of the first indicators that they looked for. New friends that are displaying this lack of respect for the fact that she is in a relationship definitely requires scrutiny. Tell her how you value your time with her and since it's already limited ask her to set boundaries when she's with you.

On the other end of the cell phone spectrum, is her not responding to your calls right away. Now, she should never feel like she needs to be at your beck and call, but if you call at a reasonable time there should be no reason for her not to answer or call right back. After all, if you and she are in a relationship, shouldn't she want to talk to you? This shouldn't need to be said, but I will anyway be extra wary, if you're exercised-challenged girlfriend answers/returns your call suspiciously out of breath.

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Lame excuses - Watch for lame excuses, like working late or going on a business trip. Sure, sometimes we all have to pull some over-time and trips do come up last minute, but when combined with the other signs of a cheating girlfriend this should sound alarms in your head.

If there is a consistent pattern of not being able to come home at times when previously there was no problem, then that is also a big warning sign. However, be sure to verify with her work mates that there has been in fact no change to the routine at her workplace to avoid wrongful confrontation though.

Accuse you of cheating - There is also some truth in the belief that the cheater will try to deflect blame by accusing you. Everyone I spoke to for this article said that if you haven't given her a reason to think you're playing the field you should be suspicious of her accusing you.

Often, the one who cheats will want to be able to be in the position of power and maintain a sense of innocence. That is why many times they will point the finger of blame at you before you have a chance to confront them.

I hope that this list of warning signs has helped you. Let's hope that none of us encounters another woman who is going to cheat, instead of having courage to call it quits. If you signs of a cheating girlfriend in the relationship you're in maybe it's time to learn about what to do in that situation. If you want to know signs of a cheating girlfriend, then maybe you should have a look here: Click Here

Sabrina Summerfield

Your Marriage Angel